How New Jersey Family Law Treats Unmarried Couples with Children

January 2, 2026

How New Jersey Family Law Treats Unmarried Couples with Children

Unmarried couples with children in New Jersey often have many of the same concerns as married parents—custody, parenting time, financial support, and decision-making for their children. However, the legal process can look different when parents are not married. Understanding your rights and responsibilities is essential to protecting your child’s well-being and maintaining stability. At Mavinkurve & Patel LLC Attorneys at Law, we can provide legal assistance to the New Jersey public navigating these important issues.


Establishing Parentage


Before issues like custody or child support can be finalized, New Jersey often requires legal parentage to be established.


  • For mothers: Parentage is automatically recognized.
  • For fathers: Parentage may be established through a Certificate of Parentage or genetic testing ordered by the court.


Once parentage is legally confirmed, both parents gain rights and responsibilities related to custody, visitation, and support.


Custody and Parenting Time


New Jersey law treats children of unmarried parents the same as those of married couples when determining custody. Courts focus entirely on the best interests of the child, considering factors such as:


  • Each parent’s ability to provide a safe and stable environment
  • The child’s needs
  • The history of each parent’s involvement
  • Any concerns about health, safety, or domestic conflict


Parents may share joint legal custody, meaning both contribute to major decisions, even if the child lives primarily with one parent.

Parenting time schedules may be negotiated privately or ordered by the court if parents cannot agree.


Child Support Obligations


Both parents are financially responsible for their child, regardless of marital status. New Jersey uses the Child Support Guidelines, which take into account:


  • Each parent’s income
  • The child’s needs
  • Healthcare and childcare costs
  • Parenting time arrangements


Child support is designed to ensure the child maintains a consistent standard of living between both households.


Decision-Making for the Child


Legal custody determines who makes major decisions about healthcare, education, and general welfare. Courts typically favor shared decision-making unless there is a compelling reason—such as safety concerns—to grant one parent sole authority.


Rights of Unmarried Parents


Both parents have the right to:


  • Seek custody or parenting time
  • Participate in important decisions
  • Request child support
  • Ask the court to enforce custody or support orders


However, these rights become enforceable only after legal parentage is established.


Why Legal Assistance Matters


Family law cases involving unmarried parents can be emotionally charged and legally complex. An attorney can help ensure parentage is properly established, negotiate custody and parenting time plans, and secure fair financial arrangements. At Mavinkurve & Patel LLC Attorneys at Law, we assist New Jersey parents in protecting their rights while prioritizing their children’s best interests.

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